May 6, 2013
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So after aborting a baby at 18, you get knocked up again barely two months later by someone you just started seeing.
This time you keep the baby.Baby Daddy is immature (like all the guys you’re attracted to) and would rather date a high schooler so he’s not going to be part of it’s life.You don’t want him to be either, so you won’t be collecting child support (so he won’t have rights to her).You’re still living at your parents house even though your Mom has said there’s no way in hell you’re bringing a baby in that house.Instead of getting a place, you go and buy a car WHEN you don’t have a drivers license (19 now, btw).Yeah, you’re working two jobs… but that’s because you got yourself in this situation so stop acting like you’re a saint.You had to repeat 9th grade 3 times then dropped out and got a GED later on.Now you’re in your third trimester and looking at colleges?!Who’s going to watch the baby girl when you’re at school. And when you’re at work?I understand it’s possible to work and go to school at the same time, but juggling a new born in there with NO FATHER… ummm, your Mom and Dad work full time. They can’t watch it. The Dad won’t be watching it (because said high schooler GF is pyscho [seriously.. she killed baby blue bird eggs just for laughs! 0.0]) and day care is expensive (along with school being expensive!)What the Hell?! I feel sorry for this poor baby because it’s being brought into a house with two smokers (who I know will not quit smoking when she comes), four dogs (three of which are huge and can be aggressive/rough), and the house is covered in dog hair and dust because the air filters don’t work and no one cleans around there.I really don’t like the girl, but I feel bad for the baby. She didn’t ask to be born and she had no control who she was born to.It just angers me… Anyways, this was the only safe place to vent because people on facebook would know who I was talking about. Anyways.. that’s all.
Comments (5)
I really think people should be required to have a license before having a baby.
that’s really frustrating. hopefully she can either pull it together enough to care for the baby or the baby is taken to a place where it will be cared for better. she really does not make good decisions – that girl needs some guidance!
This is the kind if shit that pisses me off… So many undeserving people havin kids and so many people like me and some fellow cant and that are going through hell trying to have one.
@MrsC_Est112709 - sorry to hear about your situation; it’s Murphy’s Law in play: we have what we don’t want, and want what we don’t have.
There’s a lot more to it than Murphy’s law.